Quaerite Et Invenietis “Seek and you will find”
“There is nothing hidden that will not be revealed”
The poem ‘After A While’ by Veronica A. Shoffstall was first published in her college yearbook in 1971. Written about relationships from a woman’s perspective, I think we can all relate to this beautiful poem.
After A While
by Veronica A. Shoffstall
“After a while you learn the subtle difference
between holding a hand and chaining a soul
And you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning
and company doesn’t mean security.
And you begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts
and presents aren’t promises
And you begin to accept your defeats
with your head up and your eyes ahead
with the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child
and you learn to build all your roads on today
because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans
and futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight.
After a while you learn that even sunshine burns
if you get too much.
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul
instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure
that you really are strong
and that you really do have worth
And you learn and you learn
with every goodbye you learn…”
May God bless and protect you and…
May you always be
Healthy, Happy
Safe and Comfortable
Seth Kelly Curtis
Kelly's Quest 
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The wisdom of experience, beautifully written. Might be something to give a teenage girl as she begins to date guys–could be a great conversation starter. Glad you shared it, Kelly!
Thank you Nancy.
What a great poem. Thanks for sharing it.
Thank you Tony.
Yes, I like this a lot.
Very inspiring words
This wonderful poem really speaks to me. Thank you.
You’re very welcome.
Exactly!
Soul fill.. beautiful and tender but full of strength..
This poem is so true and seen from a total adult view.
Thank you for sharing, Kelly, have a wonderful weekend ahead! 🙂
Thank you Katherine, you too!
Thank you!
Lovely
Thank you Sir.
The Three Dimensions of Interpersonal Relationships:
After a while, I discovered the 3-dimensions of all kinds of interpersonal relationships. These are, 1. Self-Love, 2. Love of God, and 3. Love of another person. If any of these dimensions is missing, the relationship tends to fail for want of respect, trust, and commitment.
Yes, respect , trust, and commitment are very important to all three dimensions of love. Take care .